What has God told you to do that you are uncomfortable about? What assignment is still waiting because you don’t see yourself as God sees you? What destiny is at a standstill because you are afraid those you’ve been sent to speak to, work with, won’t be receptive?

We recently caught a ride with our good friend Ato on his show “Couples Drive.” On this two-part series drive, we openly share our struggles, solutions we tried, our Tro-to proposal, and, finally, Harry confesses where he first met me.

The solution although seemingly simple is not. As a couple, we have to learn to be intentional in going out and crossing things off our bucket list.

Looking back, I believe that if prayer had not been a part of my equation, I probably would not have said yes to my husband. Not only because I was not interested in marriage, but also he did not fit into the mold of guys I had dated in the past or meet the things on my unrealistic "list."